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INSTRUCTIONS FOR PARISHIONERS
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The
religious, moral and social duties of a parishioner are to apply the tenets
of the Orthodox faith to his or her life and activities, to seek personal
spiritual growth, to attend the Divine Liturgy and other services of worship
faithfully on Sundays and holy days to keep the rules and fasts of the
Orthodox tradition, to receive frequently the sacraments of Penance and
Holy Communion, to train and teach the young according to the faith and
spirit of Orthodoxy, to respect the clergy. the ecclesiastical authority,
and all governing bodies of the Church, to be obedient in matters of faith
and ecclesiastical order, and to cooperate in every way towards the welfare
and prosperity of the Parish and the success of its mission.
In addition to the other duties and obligations, a parishioner shall offer such regular stewardship obligations and special assessments as the Parish may establish, or to make an annual stewardship pledge.
INSTRUCTIONS FOR WEDDINGS, DIVORCES, BAPTISMS, FUNERALS, AND MEMORIALS TOP
Weddings
For the Sacramental union of a man and a woman to be proper in the eyes of the Church, the marriage must be conducted in the Orthodox Church. For such an ecclesiastical marriage to be valid, the following must be adhered to:
1. No impediment to marriage may exist
2. A civil marriage license must be obtained from civil authorities
3. An ecclesiastical marriage license must be obtained from the Greek Orthodox Diocese
4. The Sacrament of marriage must be celebrated by an Orthodox priest according to the liturgical tradition of the Orthodox Church
5. The priest must belong to the Greek Orthodox Archdiocese. However, a marriage performed in another Orthodox jurisdiction in communion with the Greek Orthodox Archdiocese is also recognized as valid by the Archdiocese
6. The priest must receive authorization for the marriage from his Diocesan Bishop
7. Before requesting permission from the Bishop for the marriage, the priest must verify:
a) That the parties in question are not already married in this country or elsewhere
b) That the party or parties who are members of another parish obtain a certificate of membership from the parish to which they belong
c) That if either or both parties are widowed that he or she present the death certificates of the former deceased spouse{s}
d) That if either or both parties have been divorced and/or have remarried civilly or into another faith that they present the appropriate certificates
8. No more than a total of three marriages will be allowed by the Church
9. When one or both of the parties are divorced, they must obtain an Ecclesiastical divorce in order to marry again in the Church.
10. In the case of an inter denominational marriage, the non-Orthodox partner must be a Christian who has been baptized in the name of the Holy Trinity by a recognized Christian Church. A marriage cannot take place in the Orthodox Church between an Orthodox Christian and a non-Christian .
11. In the case of inter-denominational marriages between an Orthodox Christian and a non-Orthodox Christian, the marriage must be celebrated by a Priest in the Orthodox Church according to the Orthodox tradition.
12. The sponsor (Koumbaros or Koumbara) must be an Orthodox Christian in good standing with the Church. A person who does not belong to the parish, or who belongs to a parish which is not in communion with the Greek Orthodox Archdiocese or who, if married, is not married in the Orthodox Church, cannot be a Sponsor. Non-Orthodox persons however, may be Members of the wedding party.
Baptism
A
person who wishes to sponsor a candidate for Baptism and or Chrismation
in the Church must be an Orthodox Christian who is a current member of
an Orthodox Parish and who is in good standing with the Orthodox Church.
A person who has been married outside the Church may not be a godparent.
Baptisms may not be conducted on the following days unless it is absolutely
necessary and permission is obtained from the Diocesan Bishop.
1. December
25 to January 6
2. Holy Week
3. Major
Feast Days
Funerals
Funerals
services are allowed any day of the year, except on Sundays. Sunday funerals
are allowed if absolutely necessary and permission is obtained from the
Diocesan Bishop.
Memorials
Memorial
services may not be held on the following days:
1. From
the Saturday of Lazaros through the Sunday of St. Thomas.
2. All
the Feast days of our Lord
3. August
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It
is highly recommended that Orthodox Christians offer memorials for their
loved ones on the several Saturdays of the Souls which are set aside throughout
the year
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SATURDAY OF SOULS, GENERAL MEMORIALS
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Besides
the traditional forty day, three month, six month and annual memorials,
four Saturdays a year are set aside when General Memorial Services are
conducted for all the departed souls. The names of the departed should
be submitted on these days together with boiled wheat (koliva) for commemoration
and remembrance. These services are conducted following Divine Liturgy
on Meat Fare Saturday, Cheese Fare Saturday, the first Saturday of Lent,
and the eve of Pentecost.
CHRISMATION
IN THE ORTHODOX CHURCH
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Adult
non-Orthodox persons married to Orthodox Christians or anyone who desires
to investigate the Orthodox Church should contact the church office. Each
year our parish sponsors a six-week Inquiry class for persons interested
in learning more about our faith.
FASTING
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The
fast rules of the Church require abstention from meat, dairy products,
eggs, fish and olive oil, in accordance with the individual’s strength
and ability every Wednesday, and Friday, during Great Lent and Holy Week,
for the Apostles Fast in June. the Dormition of the Theotokos: August 1st
to August 14th, the Christmas Advent Period and on other days as specified
in the Church Calendar.
HOLY
COMMUNION
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Holy
Communion is the bread and wine sacramentally transformed into the body
and blood of our Lord and offered to the faithful during the celebration
of the Divine Liturgy for the forgiveness of sins and for the granting
of eternal life.
Baptized Orthodox Christians are invited to receive Holy Communion at every Divine Liturgy. The faithful prepare to receive Holy Communion by prayer. examination of conscience, confession of sins and fasting. The celebrant administers Holy Communion with both elements.
FORTY
DAY BLESSING SERVICE
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In
accordance with the life of our Lord (Luke 2:22-40)and the practice of the
Orthodox Church, parents bring their new-born child to be offered to God
before the Holy Altar on the fortieth day after birth or on the Sunday
nearest the fortieth day. The priest should be notified in advance and
an appointment made for the service. Be sure to bring a camera.
FINANCIAL
SUPPORT
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Baptized
and chrismated members of the Orthodox Church shall contribute financially
for the Archdiocese, Diocese and local parish through the Fair Share Stewardship
Program. The Fair Share Stewardship Program gives every family the opportunity
to support their church based on their love, faith and economic ability.
Free will offerings and special collections are encouraged.
RENTAL
OF CHURCH FACILITIES
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The
Church Hall in the lower level of the Church edifice and the large multipurpose
Hellenic Community Center are available for rental. For information, rental
fees, reservations and arrangements, phone the Church office.
ALTAR
FLOWERS. ALTAR CANDLES, AND LOAVES OF OFFERING
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Parishioners
are invited to donate the altar flowers, altar candles, and loaves of offering
(Prosforon) each Sunday. For information, phone the Church office.
WORSHIP
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Offering
glory, honor, praise, petitions, hymns, and worship to God on a daily and
weekly basis is the responsibility of the baptized, chrismated, dedicated
and practicing Greek Orthodox communicant.
The
primary worship service of the Church is the Sacrament of Holy Communion,
which is the Divine Liturgy. In addition, we have the Martins Service,
the Vesper Service, the services of Supplication, the Salutation Service.
the Holy Water Blessing Service, the Sacrament of Healing and Blessing
of Five Loaves.